This past summer, my husband and I went to the beach for what was supposed to be a few days of rest and relaxation. I imagined sleeping in, quiet strolls on the boardwalk and watching the sunset while sipping chilled rosé. Instead, there were kids playing ball in the room next door, breakfast buffet pandemonium and little ones having meltdowns everywhere we went. It wasn’t exactly the restorative trip we had in mind.
Don’t get me wrong. I like kids, but as a childless-by-choice 50-something, I prefer to spend my precious vacation time with like-minded grownups seeking serenity, good food and a restful night’s sleep. It’s not easy to find a place that ticks all the boxes: Quiet but not dull, elegant but not staid and fun but not overrun with partying 20-somethings. Yet, it’s not impossible. Here are six delightful adult-friendly winter getaways perfect for traveling solo, with a partner or with friends.
Immersive Art and Mexican Culture in San Miguel de Allende
Known for its thriving art scene, charming cobblestone streets and cosmopolitan vibe, the Mexican colonial town of San Miguel de Allende is the ideal adult getaway. Two 21-and-over properties of note include La Valise San Miguel de Allende, a boutique hotel in the heart of the city with six rooms and suites, a quiet courtyard, tranquil pools and art installations by Pedro Friedeberg, and Casa Hoyos, which blends modern decor, colonial architecture and furnishings by Mexican artisans. Don’t miss Casa Hoyos’ stunning rooftop bar with panoramic city views.
Lobby of Casa Hoyos in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico
Modernism and Vintage Vibes in Palm Springs, California
There's no place like Palm Springs for sun, fun and mid-century modern architecture and design. During Modernism Week, which runs from February 13-23, 2025, you can tour iconic mid-century homes and attend special cocktail parties and events. Back at your hotel, enjoy drinks by the pool without worrying about cannonballing kids. Adult-only properties of note include the Saint-Tropez-inspired Dive Palm Springs, the modern, but rustic Sparrows Lodge and the Movie Colony Hotel, a nod to old Hollywood glam.
Pool and Grounds at Dive Palm Springs in California