In the summer of 2017, my husband was hiking alone in the mountains of Colorado. He was fit and trim, a lifelong athlete, but as Glenn ascended the trail, he felt an unfamiliar tightness in his chest. A high school history teacher who gets CPR training each year, Glenn knew the signs of a heart attack. Surely it couldn’t be that? He was only forty- six and had zero history of heart problems.
He pushed on, hoping the sensation in his chest would go away. But it persisted.
At some point, two other hikers appeared on the trail, a father and daughter. It wasn’t like Glenn to ask for help, but for once, he did. They immediately sat him down and called 911. Soon six members of Boulder Mountain Rescue, an elite group of volunteers who perform alpine search and rescue, came sprinting up the mountain. They strapped Glenn to a gurney and raced him down to a waiting ambulance.
I got a phone call from one of the helpful hikers while I was out running errands at home in Maryland. He was a little vague at first, but eventually, I understood that things were serious, and I was soon speeding to the airport to catch a flight to Denver. I couldn’t believe this was happening. The vow Glenn and I had exchanged at our wedding in 1999 was “I will love you until I am 103.”
We come from different faiths, so we wrote our own ceremony and found saying “103” funnier than “forever.” As the years passed, the line had become a running joke between us. It might seem strange that we assumed we could live that long. But the odds were in our favor. We were healthy, well-educated, and financially secure — all factors that boost life expectancy.
Not only had we promised to love each other beyond the age of one hundred, we had used that horizon to calculate how long we’d need to work and how much we would need to save for our retirement. Suddenly, I realized that all our planning, all our optimistic assumptions, might be for nothing.
In the end, we were incredibly lucky: Glenn’s heart didn’t stop on that mountain. He reached the emergency room before he flatlined. The hospital staff flew into action and started chest compressions, breaking several ribs in the process. The cardiologist diagnosed a blockage in Glenn’s left anterior descending artery. I didn’t know it at the time, thankfully, but this vital blood vessel is known as the “widow-maker.”
When this kind of heart attack occurs outside a hospital or advanced care center, the survival rate is only 12 percent. Until the 1980s, even patients who were hospitalized fared little better. But then coronary stents were developed. These tiny metal structures hold the artery open to prevent it from narrowing again and can save a patient even in the middle of a heart attack. In a matter of minutes, Glenn’s brilliant cardiologist had placed four stents in three arteries near Glenn’s heart. My flight was about to take off when the doctor called to say the procedure had gone well. Glenn was already recovering in the ICU.