One of my absolute favorite TV shows was Grace and Frankie (Netflix), which ran for 7 seasons and ended in 2022. It was funny, touching and much of it was relatable. The show worked so well because both the writing and the acting were top-notch. Jane Fonda and Lily Tomlin played the title roles of Grace and Frankie, two long-time adversaries who became best friends as they navigated the challenges and joys of getting older. Grace and Frankie proved that women over 60 aren’t meant to be just background characters, supporting younger castmates. They deserve strong, dynamic storylines of their own. Luckily, Hollywood seems to have taken note, and there are now a plethora of older women ruling our TVs.
Laurie Metcalf, 71
On Big Mistakes (Netflix), Metcalf plays Linda Morelli, a divorced mother of three adult children. Linda has spent most of her life taking care of others (her mother, her kids, the family business). She is finally ready to do something for herself and decides she will run for town mayor. Metcalf’s impeccable comic timing has her stealing every scene she is in. The show has been renewed for a second season.
Jean Smart, 74
In the comedy Hacks (HBO Max), Smart stars as legendary stand-up comedian Deborah Vance. Throughout the series' five-season run, it feels like people keep insisting that Deborah's career is over and she is washed up. But no matter what is thrown her way (the end of her long residency in Vegas, the cancellation of her talk show, or a gag order), Deborah will not allow anyone to keep her from her true love, which is performing for an audience. Deborah has no intention of just fading out of the limelight. Instead, she continues to reinvent herself and her act, proving the naysayers wrong. Smart has received four Emmy awards for the role.
Michelle Pfeiffer, 68
The Madison (Paramount+) is also about reinventing yourself in midlife. Stacy Clyburn (Pfeiffer) is living a very comfortable life in New York City. She was married to the love of her life, Preston, for over 40 years, until he died unexpectedly in a plane crash while fishing with his brother on the Madison River in Montana. Initially, Stacy goes to Montana (along with her two adult daughters, son-in-law and two granddaughters) to retrieve her husband's body and finalize paperwork. But while there, Stacy finds herself drawn to this place her husband loved so much and wondering what is next for her and her family as they navigate this new chapter. Pfeiffer is also co-starring in Margo’s Got Money Troubles (Apple TV+), playing a mom trying to live her own life while also being a support to her daughter, a single mom. The show was renewed for a second season.